Living, Learning and Loving

Unless it is mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it is a waste of time. There are too many mediocre things in life. Love should NOT be one of them.

Love is extraordinary. We try and make it simple, package it up with a pretty bow; however it's the opposite of that. It's a complicated beautiful mess, it isn't neat, it's a huge spectacular supernova. Have you seen a picture of a supernova?

It is breathtaking and we look all over the universe for it; just like love. I haven't written a blog in a long time; my life is going really well right now. I can feel that I'm closer to love than ever before and I think it's because I finally know who I am and understand myself. When you understand yourself it's easier for someone to love you because you no longer have to focus on yourself and your flaws and insecurities and can focus on the other person and their many attributes and they can love you despite your imperfections. I'm starting to feel comfortable in my own skin and that's a big revelation for me. If you're reading this and you're feeling lost or heartbroken remember this: You matter. You are an individual. You are your own person, unlike anyone else. You deserve the best. You will find love. You will be happy. The only person standing in your way of happiness is yourself. “Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.” “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Live boldly my friends and never apologize for loving someone with all your heart. <3